How people are coping with social distancing?
I see different ways of coping with the social distance: trying to get more information or give proper information (for example from municipalities); cooperating to help vulnerable (elderly) people, to get their medicines, food and so on; finding new ways to support each other through social media (Facebook groups of support / entertainment / information in many cities); offering psychological support (in my city there is a free phone service for people who need it); home delivery from markets that don't usually do that service; e-learning or online lessons for students. It seems that some people are searching for new ways to let others feel their (positive) presence. This is also what restorative justice can do: the so called "restorative attitude", that is the “treasure”, we can use also in this situation of inability. Help people to think about the future, to imagine how it will be possible to overcome the consequences of all this. Many people are suffering, many are losing beloved relatives, many are having bad consequences, for example they lost their work, many are scared and worried.
There could be / will be a lot of restorative work to do: can restorative practices put our energies together to restore this present, thinking about a different future?
What is the impact of the situation on you personally?
My life has changed a lot since two weeks ago: I'm locked in my house with my four years-old daughter. I really appreciate the existence of social media channels: I cannot see my mother, sister and friends, and my baby cannot see her dad, grandma, cousin or aunt, but fortunately we have the possibility of seeing each other through video calls. What I miss most is time together with people I love: an aperitif with friends, a walk in the nature...
It is hard, but I feel lucky! I am lucky because I have a garden and I can go out with my daughter to play, and she can ride her bike or skate or run. I am thinking about people who don't have this opportunity. It must be hard. It is difficult to manage the everyday life with a child who wants to play all the time, and there is home work to do, and a house to clean in order to maintain a healthy environment. But in overall I am lucky because all the people I love are fine, and we are okay at home. All around me, in the closest cities, the Covid-19 disease is murdering many people.
I feel a bit sad because I cannot help others, as I usually do volunteering in the Red Cross: it is becoming too dangerous for me and my daughter. And it is dangerous for all volunteers. Last week, after a young volunteer in the close city of Brescia passed away because of Covid-19, they decided to cancel all volunteer rescuer's shifts in my city. I feel quite stressed and scared, but I am also appreciating this time at home. I have to, I want to. There must be a sense!